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The new COVID slide, as if Summer slide was not difficult enough …

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Jun 262020
 

As summer 2020 gets underway for my three teenage girls, thoughts for me drift towards what students and children are supposed to do for the next nine weeks. Under normal circumstances, summer would be a stay-at-home break from school, but who needs yet another stay-at-home day of what has been the norm for the past 100 days? How will kids stay positive about learning and be ready to face the start of the next school year mid-August?

Summer slide is the term used to refer to children sliding backwards (from reading and learning) when out of school for the summer break. COVID slide is an inevitable extended super-slide, that began mid-March, that will set many of our young learners back, as they have not all been able to maintain steady reading and virtual class time.

How have the past three months been for you and your household? Have your kids kept up the good fight to complete projects, homework assignments and kept up with the Zoom calls with teachers? Our girls fared well to begin with, but as the weeks clicked over, there interest seemed to wane… a lot.

The ELL students we serve have honestly not fared too well overall. Despite their best efforts and intentions, parents just could not sustain connections to teachers and keep their kids occupied. Many obstacles lay in the way.

We also surveyed our persistent volunteers to find out how much contact they had managed to maintain with their student. It’s been hard to provide help and encouragement from the awkward distance, week after week.

This summer, we conduct some literacy and enrichment activities. Not virtually but at a distance, if you know what I mean. Some of the same as in the prior years, but also another new adventure of an away overnight camp to the mountains for kids, to be joined later by their parents and younger siblings.

If a normal summer of learning loss is upon us, this year is going to be more challenging, and not so normal. Social distancing and PPE will dictate some added guidelines and fun activities. This summer, we are also recruiting out-of-work parents to help with crafts, cleaning and cooking.

If you’d like to volunteer as an intern, or volunteer your high school or college student, please connect with us through our website link or email us at info@lhcclt.org. Make the best of the new normal and cheer on a student near you. Let’s reverse the COVID slide and get kids ready for another year, together.

I am,

Brent Morris

Executive Director

June 27 2020

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A world where every neighbor is a friend

 COVID-19, Family, Neighboring, Racism  Comments Off on A world where every neighbor is a friend
Jun 222020
 

I will no doubt date myself by telling you that I was big fan of the Swedish supergroup ABBA in the 70’s. Listening to the lyrics of their hit Happy New Year today on a run, one could not miss the words of the repeating chorus …

May we all have a vision now and then

Of a world where every neighbor is a friend

… May we all have our hopes, our will to try

If we don’t we might as well lay down and die”.  

Abba sang this song about the dawn of the new year of 1980, with a question to ponder what the sentiment would be at the end of the next decade. How about 30 years later? If ABBA a were still cranking out pop ballads, you have to wonder what they would be saying in 2020.

After yet another week of protests … some peaceful, some not, one has to wonder what it would take to address racism once and for all. The Black Lives Matter movement moves forward. Black lives do matter. Period. 

There was only one race, the human race. What would it take if we all put love into action and really stamp out racism. What a great day it would be if every neighbor is a friend.

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Why we dropped 140 meals in one week, literally

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Jun 142020
 

This week, LHCC Mobile Meals enters its 13th week of delivering kids meals to our families in the South Blvd corridor. Volunteers have been fantastic about showing up at our catering kitchen to pack and deliver meals each weekday. Thank you for continuing to be a big part of LHCC Mobile Meals and for your loyalty to our program.

Chuck Coonradt once said, in his best-selling book Game of Work, that to people who don’t matter, you merely tell them what is going down. For people you really value, you tell them the “why”. We have made a few changes that we want to share with you.

  • We have reduced our kids’ deliveries from over 160 to 90 kids, or 180 meals per day
  • We have reduced our driver routes from three to one, so that only one driver and delivery crew can deliver more meals to about the same number of addresses
  • The delivery should take about 60 to 75 minutes

We plan to deliver meals to the families who are both directly a part of our program and really couldn’t receive meals any other way. Here’s the why…

  • Many of our families have only one vehicle that leaves for dad’s work early each morning, leaving mom at home without transportation for the day.
  • We have always been big on not providing hand-outs, choosing instead to serve others only when they can’t reasonably do it for themselves.
  • We also made sure that we did not leave any family high and dry. We have directed families to local feeding sites, including CMS schools to collect daily meals. We assure you none of the families we have served will go hungry.

LHCC continues to provide:

  • Weekly bulk food deliveries to our family, thanks to donations by the community.
  • Volunteer help for our caterer, at Nations Ford, Charities Kitchen
  • Support a single mother of two who prepares adult meals for our families without employment.

Thank you to each and every volunteer who has supported our families since mid-March. We look forward to seeing all our kids together for our annual summer program in late July and early August to prepare our kids for their return to school after five long hot summer months.

If you would like to volunteer, or volunteer your high school or college student, please have them connect with us and sign-up for a small role during our summer camp through our website link

Until next time, have a blessed week and stay safe.

Brent Morris

Executive Director, Learning Help Centers of Charlotte

June 15, 2020

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How North Carolina ranks in the Hunger Charts

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May 252020
 

I had no idea that North Carolina had the 10th highest hunger rate in the US. Among senior citizen’s it’s even worse, where we are ranked 4th! Food hardships particularly for children have risen to unprecedented levels.

Based on a recent study from UNC at Chapel Hill, one in seven of our neighbors can’t get enough to eat. 23 percent of NC households currently lack the money to obtain enough food. Families with kids obviously have a tougher time keeping food on the table, where 35 percent don’t have enough to eat. Pause and let that sink in … that’s one in three families are struggling to feed themselves.

When LHCC started delivering kids meals ten weeks ago, in mid-March, I was pretty sure the kids meals program would soon fizzle as kids became tired of the catered food. Not so fast. I soon realized that demand was increasing each day during those early weeks and has not dissipated since. Parents were adamant that the food was needed and have assured us “Please don’t stop, we can’t get enough”. Parents have made it clear that they do still need daily deliveries. The proof of the pudding is in the eating, I guess.

Every kids meal we supply means more money for the family to make their third pandemic era rent payment, due in a few short days. In case you were wondering kids meals are complemented by adult meals as well as weekly grocery deliveries, provided by LHCC.

Times like this surely bring out the best in people. New LHCC volunteers have helped for the past 50 weekdays, with food bagging, packing, driving and delivery. Families are also sharing food and distributing meals with their neighbors.

We are contemplating a reverse pivot back to our normal summer focus. Should we discontinue food delivery, in order focus on our usual summer camps, kids education and readying everyone for the next school year? After reflecting upon these state-wide hunger statistics and associated hunger challenges and feedback from the families we serve, we’ll just keeping driving forward with our LHCC Mobile Meals Program. We’ll ensure that food insecurity, like poverty and unemployment does not become yet another uncertainty and cause for further pandemic anxiety.

Volunteers are needed and certainly most welcome. Please sign up here or view our homepage for ways to get involved

Desde el Corazón de Nuestra Respuesta Pandémica

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May 082020
 

Hoy, nuestros voluntarios se levantaron de sus residencias para quedarse en casa, nuevamente, se levantaron de la cama y manejaron sus ruedas unas 10 millas para ayudar a LHCC a empacar y entregar otras 314 comidas a los niños de nuestro vecindario. Día 40 hecho y espolvoreado. Casi 8 semanas de entrega diaria de alimentos. Aquí está nuestro reciente video clip de LHCC Mobile Meals, gracias a mi buen amigo, el Sr. Morry Alter.

Por un lado, estoy agradecido de tener la energía y el entusiasmo para hacer lo mismo. Salga de la cama, sabiendo que tendré una misión esencial e inspirada para el día. Cuando las puertas del apartamento se abren y los padres nos saludan, a menudo con niños somnolientos que se levantan de su propio sueño, todo parece valer la pena. Las sonrisas siguen, y también las nuestras.

Tengo la fuerte sensación de que los niños se están cansando realmente de las hojas de trabajo, las llamadas de Zoom y las interacciones ocasionales de los maestros. Fue un esfuerzo noble durante las primeras semanas. Aparentemente, todos los niños de la escuela se graduarán … independientemente, siempre y cuando fueran aceptables, mucho antes de que esto comenzara, aproximadamente el viernes 13 de marzo. La presión para hacer el trabajo escolar es, en mi opinión, lo que es muy lamentable. Basta de esta locura, es agradable … Continuamos alentando a los padres a mantener a los niños enfocados en alguna forma de educación, juegos, lectura, etc. después de todo, es por su propio bien, no para sus maestros … o sus padres.

¿Por qué estamos haciendo esto? Es una cosa de Dios. En 2012, me sentí llamado a servir a los menos (las familias inmigrantes en el corredor South Blvd para ser específicos), y aquellos que no siempre pueden ayudarse a sí mismos. Es una bendición para nuestro equipo y voluntarios de LHCC, y estamos agradecidos de poder servir en el campo misionero de Dios, junto con otros dispuestos a ayudar. Esta mañana me acordé de 1 Corintios 13: 1. Queremos alentarlo hoy con una palabra sobre L-O-V-E. Si hablo con una lengua sobre el amor, pero no tengo amor en mi corazón, solo soy un gong o un símbolo en conflicto. Solo un ruido. No cuenta para nada.

Rezo para que nuestras familias vean el amor de Cristo en nuestros voluntarios y personal, y no solo una comida, o veinticuatro, en su puerta cada día.

Que tenga un día bendecido y esté seguro allá afuera. Fase uno, ¡adelante!

Estoy trabajando mientras es de dia

Sr Brent

8 de mayo de 2020

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From the heart of our COVID-19 response effort

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May 072020
 

Today, our volunteers rose from their stay-at-home residences, again, rolled out of bed and drove their wheels about 10 miles to help LHCC pack and deliver another 314 meals to our neighborhood kids. Day 39 done and dusted. Almost 8 weeks of daily food delivery. Here is our recent video clip of LHCC Mobile Meals, thanks to my good friend, Mr Morry Alter.

For one, I am grateful to have the energy and enthusiasm to do the same. Roll out of bed, knowing that I will have an essential and inspired mission for the day. When the apartment doors open and the parents greet us, often with sleepy kids rising from their own slumber, it all seems very worthwhile. The smiles follow, and so do ours.

I am getting the strong sense that kids are getting really tired of the worksheets, Zoom calls, and occasional teacher interactions. It was a noble effort for the first few weeks. All school kids will seemingly graduate … regardless, as long as they were passable, way back before this started, on or about Friday, March 13. The pressure to do school work is off, in my opinion, which is most unfortunate. Enough of this craziness, its nice outside… We continue to encourage parents to keep kids focused on some form of education, games, reading, etc. after all, it’s for their own good, not for their teachers … or their parents.

Why are we doing this, you may be asking?” It’s a God thing. In 2012, I felt called to serve the least of these (immigrant families in the South Blvd corridor to be specific), and those that can’t always help themselves. It is a blessing for our LHCC team and volunteers, and we are grateful that we get to serve on God’s mission field, alongside others willing to help. I was reminded this morning about 1 Corinthians 13:1.  We want to encourage you today with a word about L-O-V-E. If I speak with a tongue about love, but don’t have love in my heart, I am just a gong or clashing symbol. Just a noise. It counts for nought.

I pray that our families see the love of Christ in our volunteers and staff, and not just a meal, or twenty four, on their doorstep each day.

Have a blessed day and be safe out there. Phase one, bring it on!

I am working while it is day

Brent M

May 7, 2020


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There’s only good news here … this blogpost is about kinship and caring

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Apr 052020
 

Times like this bring out the best in people. Four weeks ago, we pivoted from gathering and started delivering Meals on Wheels to the kids in our after-school program. Volunteers signed up to help as they usually do, and we increased our daily meal count for 38 kids to over 150 meals this past week ahead of the Easter weekend. We were very surprised that the need for kids meals was there from the get-go.

Requests for nutritious kids’ meals (consisting of lunch for today, breakfast for tomorrow) soon increased and requests included worksheets, chapter books, games and puzzles to keep kids stimulated and away from technology, at least for a little while each day. We were happy to oblige and meet the growing needs.

Our volunteers have gone to great lengths to stay in touch with their students and to encourage them during the stay-at-home period.

  • Phone numbers have been exchanged between volunteers and parents (and kids)
  • Hand written letters are being written by volunteers to kids and delivered by US Mail
  • Video calls to children so they can get help with their school worksheets and daily reading
  • Volunteers are reading bible stories and chapter books using FaceTime and other technology tools
  • Baked goods have been prepared and delivered for kids and adults
  • Birthdays have been celebrated with cup cakes and birthday cake
  • Moms are making meals for other moms who are no longer working and therefore staying at home

Naturally, the appreciation barometer has gone way up. Letters of appreciation, drawings and thank-you notes from children and parents are being shared with us on a daily basis.

What a healthy perspective on caring for others in an unprecedented time of need.

Thank you volunteers for your support and for coming alongside our appreciative families. This is no-doubt kinship 101 and walking the talk towards making a meaningful impact.

We’ll get through this pandemic, together.

The holy scriptures assure us that we have nothing to fear. Not even COVID-19. We are to be still and know that God is God and still in control. Psalm 46:10. Additional inspiration, comfort and hope can be found in Psalm 119:49-56

Until next time, I am

Brent Morris ED LHCC April 9, 2020

Hispanics most often associate with Whites on Census Forms (part 1 of 2)

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Feb 232020
 

The 2020 Census is taking place later this year. It is going to be interesting to see the impact of the much-debated Latino representation. There has been much controversy over how Hispanics might identify themselves on census forms, as they are not identified as their own race or group, unlike Whites, Blacks (African Americans), American Indian, Asians or Pacific Islanders. Those are their only choices…

A recent Pew study of census data shows that many Hispanics are identifying as white. This could have implications in national politics and can certainly influence where parties spend millions of dollars in appealing to get people out to vote. This research suggests that the longer Hispanics have been in the U.S., the more likely they are to indicate that they are “white”. 

There is however a caution in treating whiteness as ideal social baseline; America is much more than the complexion or the color of our skin. We ought to be recognizing our diversity in terms of culture, ethnicities and in the knowledge that all people were created equal and were intended to live together and treat others with respect. 

Consider for instance this Pew Research Center study of census returns that showed that significantly more Hispanics are now identifying as white. The research was completed in 2019 and presented at the recent Population Association of America meeting. 

Some news reports suggested that Hispanics, rather than solidifying a distinct ethnic identity and becoming the driving force of a “majority-minority” future, might instead try to be the latest group of immigrants, such as Italians or Jews, to “become white.” 

If this shift is real, it could have big implications. 

Take for example national politics, where the Republican Party plays to a shrinking, aging and questioning base of historically white voters. If large numbers of Hispanics were to start thinking of themselves as white, that could alter the calculations and messaging of the party and its incumbent president. 

It turns out such scenarios are at best premature. What the new research really appears to reveal is just how confused we continue to be about race. Amidst this confusion, being identified as someone who is white is a label that Americans must deal with rather carefully. 

Next blog will be a continuation of the Pew Research and why whiteness ought not to matter …

Until next time, I am Brent M, Executive Director of LHCC and today is February 21, 2020

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Where have all the shepherd’s gone? Where are the fathers today?

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Feb 172020
 

My last post focused on parents being vigilant at home and keeping an eye on what our children are exposed to through the various media channels that we allow into our home. The learning principle was that while parents consider their daily interactions with their children to be adequate, the average time spend with children in a research study of high school students indicated that the average time spend by fathers with their children is a mere 37 seconds each day …

It takes years to figure out how to be a good parent. I’m obviously still learning to be a better father and to fulfill my role as dad. As the heads of the home, men are called to be shepherds, the designated teacher, the nurturer, the guide and of course, the leader. Shepherds might be carefully guarding their careers, vigilant over their 401k performance, protective of their professional reputations. However, their flock may have been virtually abandoned to fend for themselves against the secular humanistic, pluralistic wolves of society. The sheep are distressed, disorientated and oftentimes depressed. According to the Department of Health and Human Services, 42% of girls and 27% of boys seriously thought about suicide.

We owe it to our families to remain vigilant. Children spell love … T-I-M-E. I have to find the right balance between work and play. As a father, and learning from the great shepherd, we have no greater responsibility to nurture and guide the sheep that God has entrusted to our control.

I am Brent Morris

Executive Director

Learning Help Centers of Charlotte

February 15, 2020

Inspiration for this post is from a short book by the father of our pastor, Stephen Davey, who is the senior pastor of Colonial Baptist church in Cary, and the headquarters of Shepherds Theological Seminary. I am grateful for his passion to serve his flock and share his insightful resources.

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What’s not to Love

 Attitude, Education, Encouragement, Social Capital, Wisdom  Comments Off on What’s not to Love
Jan 262020
 

Take a moment to reflect on the myriad of influences and messages we receive in a given day. How do these forces shape you and those you love?

A recent study indicated that busy parents who believed that they spend 15 minutes with their children each day were actually spending a lot less than that in terms of interacting with and influencing their hearts and minds. This was closer to 37 seconds than 15 minutes. This ought to be a warning to all of us about what we allow to enter our homes, schools and media devices.

There are many belief systems that are influencing us as a society, as well as families and most certainly our children. TV shows, movies, music, teachers, friends, the media. Each of these carry assumptions. Some are obvious while others are perhaps a little under the radar. We can’t unwatch something we saw on TV. Children are exposed to things in this generation of media that is way and above greater than past generations. On the topic of faith, some are clear and concise. Others are exerting a subtle positive or negative influence. Just think of the many distractions alluring us away from what we know to be acceptable and true.

At LHCC, we conduct scholastic interventions. All our family interactions are intended to be social and ones that uplift, encourage and provide hope. We also exert a spiritual influence through prayers, bible lessons by doing and saying what we believe Jesus would have us emulate.

We are indeed grateful for the joy and privilege of gracefully nurturing children’s hearts towards God. In addition, any opportunities to instill similar behaviors in our own lives is worth noting, as we encourage others to do the same. Let us remain vigilant in doing good, so that the evil one not get a foothold.

“Continue in what you have learned … how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures” 2 Timothy 3:14-15.

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